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Hello Friends,

In this third issue of A Photographer’s Note, we look at the reception — that moment after the ceremony when the couple has said their vows, the relief settles in, and the fun starts to build.

The reception always feels like a kind of an exhale. It’s when the focus widens beyond the couple — and the story expands toward everyone who witnessed their journey to this moment.

It’s in this part — somewhere between champagne being poured and the first dance — that gratitude begins to take shape. You see it in the small gestures. In the way the couple moves from table to table, touching shoulders, clasping hands, offering thanks.

Then come the toasts — funny and loving.

One by one, the voices of love ones rise to meet the moment. Parents, siblings, old friends. The people who raised them, shaped them, held them up. 

The reception, I’ve come to realize, is less about being celebrated — and more about celebrating others. This is all part of their story.

It’s where the couple gives the floor to the people who played a part in their lives - sometimes having seeing them through heartbreaks, and now, seeing them get married.

This issue is about that moment.

The way gratitude shows itself throughout the evening — through food, through words, through glances across candlelit tables.

This part of the day doesn’t always get the spotlight. But it’s where some of the most meaningful images live. The ones that end up framed on nightstands.

Thanks to the planners, florists, caterers, venues for being the ones who help make space for these moments to unfold, and be captured.

FLASHES OF GRATITUDE

Room With a View

Between the hugs, there’s often a path couples take around the room — a pilgrimage of appreciation. I look for the moments when they lean in just a little closer to say thank you with their eyes and embrace.

SLOWING THE EMOTION

The First Dance

The lights dim. The circle forms.

I have one camera with flash to stop the action and another camera with a fast lens, shooting available light with the aperture wide open to capture the mood of the moment and how it felt for them.

The half-smile. The whispered count. The way a hand tightens mid-turn.

The first dance isn’t about flawless steps. It’s about the connection between the two of them and the faces that make the moments of joy for all to witness. My job is to make sure these moments are felt with great images that can only be relived through them.

FINDING THE EMOTION

The Table as Storyline

The seating chart is its own kind of narrative. These are years of relationships arranged around candlelight and crystal. I look for the beautiful interactions: shared bread, clinking glasses, an endearing glance. I look for the connections.

FINDING THE EMOTION

The Weight of Words

Toasts are emotional. A rollercoaster of laughs and tears. But, I don’t just shoot the speaker; I look at who’s listening. The emotions are in the reactions. The unexpected rush of tears. The laughter mid-drink. The way people look at each other when someone says the thing everyone else has known for years.

FINDING THE EMOTION

The Depth of Ambiance

For the most emotive photos, visual context makes all the difference. Decor isn’t just decorative; it is lighting and foreground interest that can dramatically bump up the emotionality of a picture. It shows up as a beautiful setting and adds depth and dynamism to photos.

TRADITIONS

Cake or Frosting?

Before the knife meets cake, there’s always a glance between the bride and groom. A quiet negotiation. How are we doing this? Gentle? Playful? Competitive?

The room watches for the decision.

I love to be able to shoot these with available light but sometimes I need to add flash to capture the action especially on a champagne tower.

“If you talk to someone about their wedding photography, they’ll remember four or five images. The rest is a blur. But those images are what they always remember as their wedding pictures.

I can’t miss those.

And I don’t know which they’re going to be. But I’ve got to deliver enough great images that they can find the images that make it theirs.”

- Michael Kress

FROM THE BLOG | TRADITIONS

What’s in a Toast?

À votre santé. Salute. Salud. Zum Wohl. Skål. Cheers.

The toast is more than a speech.

Read more and view the gallery in Michael’s Blog

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7801 Norfolk Ave T4
Bethesda, Maryland 20814
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